Registration for the September 27 Soft Landing Intensive is now closed.

You don’t have to carry the hard parts of life abroad alone.

If you’re a Black woman abroad and life still feels heavier than you expected, there’s room to talk about that.

In a free Soft Landing Call, we’ll explore what’s feeling hard, what may be keeping you stuck, and one next step toward feeling more settled, supported, and like yourself again.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Your location changed.

Your survival patterns didn't.

A new country can offer more freedom, space, and possibility. But the ways you learned to protect yourself can follow you there.

You keep repeating it

You moved to create freedom but you still notice yourself responding in a familiar way—even when you know it is no longer helping you.

You understand it, but still feel stuck

You may know why you do what you do, but insight alone has not changed what happens in the moment.

You're ready to respond differently

You want to understand what is happening beneath the pattern and make a choice that feels more like you.

Black woman reflecting with her journal while living abroad

Tori Prophet, MA, LMFT, PMH-C
Licensed in Texas · Certified in Brainspotting

Tori Prophet, MA, LMFT, PMH-C
Licensed in Texas
Certified in Brainspotting

MEET YOUR FACILITATOR

Support created with Black women abroad in mind

I’m Tori Prophet, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in women’s transitions.

I help Black women living abroad interrupt the survival patterns they carried into their new lives—including over-functioning, hyper-independence, overthinking, and self-abandonment—so they can rest without guilt, receive support without apology, and make choices rooted in their own desires.

When I saw how often Black women living abroad were left without culturally responsive mental health support, I knew I had to do something about it. I created Soft Landing to offer a culturally responsive space where you can recognize what is happening beneath the surface, reconnect with what you need, and move forward without having to explain or justify your experience.

My work is informed by grounding practices, neuroscience, Brainspotting, trauma-responsive care, and seven years of experience supporting women through meaningful life transitions.

FROM SOFT LANDING CIRCLE

What women have experienced inside Tori’s Soft Landing work

“I have more emotional and nervous system regulation tools that can serve me for the rest of my life and empower me to address any obstacles, both internal and external, that I may run into.”

Mimi, Soft Landing Circle Participant

“It’s been valuable in that I have had to stop and think about what I need when that is not normally something that I do. This circle also provided a safe space to do so.”

Joy, Soft Landing Circle Participant

Black woman reflecting with her journal while living abroad

IF THIS FEELS FAMILIAR

This experience may be for you if…

You have created a new life abroad, but some of the patterns that helped you survive, achieve, and care for everyone else are making it difficult to fully receive what you moved for.

You’re tired of always being the strong, capable one

You want support but find it difficult to let it in

You still don’t feel settled inside the life you created

You’re ready to stop explaining why you want more

WHAT YOU'LL LEAVE WITH

A more grounded way forward

Notice

Recognize the pattern

Notice the early signs before an old survival response shapes your next choice.

Support

Return to steadiness

Use one practical grounding tool when you feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or disconnected.

Trust

Name your next step

Name one boundary, request, conversation, or decision that supports the life you want.

THE DETAILS

One day.

One live, intimate space.

One clear next step.

A focused space to step out of the noise, recognize what is asking for your attention, and leave clear about what comes next.

An intensive gives you the time and guided support to stay with one meaningful question long enough to recognize the pattern beneath it, hear what you need, and identify a grounded way forward—without trying to solve everything at once.

You are allowed to create a life that feels as good as it looks.