Your Life Abroad

Should Feel as Good

as It Looks

Moving abroad can create more freedom, but it doesn’t automatically release the roles, patterns, and emotional weight you carried with you.

I help Black women feel safer, softer, and more at home inside the lives they crossed oceans to create.

The Move Is Only Part of the Transition.

You can be grateful for the life you created and still need support with what came with you—and what the move is asking you to become.

The Roles You Carried

  • Carrying responsibility for everyone

  • Staying available even when depleted

  • Managing other people’s emotions

  • Feeling guilty when you choose yourself

  • Measuring your worth through productivity

Physical distance does not automatically release the roles you have carried.

The Safety You’re Learning

  • Anticipating what could go wrong

  • Overthinking decisions and interactions

  • Struggling to ask for or receive support

  • Finding it hard to fully settle and rest

  • Feeling emotionally on call for everyone

Your body may need support experiencing the freedom your mind has already chosen.

The Woman You’re Becoming

  • Redefining what home means to you

  • Building belonging in unfamiliar places

  • Trusting what you want without defending it

  • Letting ease have a place in your life

  • Creating success on your own terms

Reinvention is learning to build a life that fits who you are becoming.

Ways to Work With Me.

Half-Day Intensive

A live half-day experience for Black women abroad who are ready to recognize the survival patterns still shaping their lives and leave with one clear, grounded next step.

Soft Landing Circle

Ongoing guided support for Black women abroad navigating identity, belonging, emotional exhaustion, and the work of feeling at home inside the lives they created.

Meet Tori Prophet, MA, LMFT

Therapist-informed support

I bring a therapist’s understanding of identity, relationships, and emotional patterns to every space I lead.

Centered on Black women abroad

My work is designed around the realities Black women experience before, during, and after relocation.

Beyond the moving logistics

We address the roles, protective patterns, and emotional weight that can travel with you across an ocean.

A softer way forward

This work helps you feel safer, more supported, and more at home inside the life you chose.

You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone.

If you’re ready for support that understands both the life you built and what it took to build it, let’s talk.